Life is A Journey To Collect Evidences for Our Beliefs

Yes!

It is a journey to prove what we decided to believe is 'correct.'

So, if your belief is 'I'm not lovable',
you'd look for evidences that could prove your belief is right!

🌱He hadn't returned my call.
🌱I wasn't invited.
🌱She slammed the door.
🌱I was ignored by them.

You can't settled for 'He must have forgotten.' or 'The wind was so strong that the door closed too quickly.'
Because you are on the journey of collecting the proofs that 'you are not lovable.'

But we often don't realize that we are on the proof-collecting-journey. 💡

So, we make efforts.
Here, you make efforts to be 'a lovable human'.

🌱Being understanding of others' needs.
🌱Prioritizing others.
🌱Trying to sort things by yourself when you really can do with some help.
🌱Being the last person to stay to clean up.

People appreciate your kindness.
But their appreciations don't resonate in you deeply.

Because.
Your belief is 'I'm not lovable.'

So, it's the path that you have to keep making efforts without fulfillments.

No matter how much people tell you that they love you and that you are wonderful, talented and kind human being, it doesn't resonate in you.

Because.
Your belief is 'I'm not lovable.'
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The good news is you don't have to make that efforts anymore! 🎊

You just need to rewrite your belief.

'I'm loved.'
'I've always been loved.'

It's not easy.
But everytime you collect all your courage to find the proofs of 'I'm loved' (I call this process 'Bungee Jumping' 😂), you rewrite your belief firmly.

🌱Ask for help.
🌱Prioritze your needs.
🌱Say 'No'.
🌱Leave the gathering first and leave the dirty dishes to someone else.😂

It's not the efforts we need.
It's the courage that we need.

What would you be collecting these evidences for?